The best male sex toys are simply the ones that feel good to you.
The best male sex toys are simply the ones that feel good to you. One man might enjoy a toy that massages his prostate. Another may prefer a vibrating cock ring. If you’re new to the world of men’s sex toys, being open to experimentation will help you find one — or several — that work for you.
In this guide, we’ll discuss different types of adult toys for men, how they work, and what to look for when buying a toy. We’ll also touch on how toys may improve sex for men with sexual dysfunction disorders.
This may come as no surprise to you, but research shows women use sex toys more than men during masturbation. In one study, around 76 percent of women reported having ever used a sex toy during solo sex, compared to 63 percent of men.
What kinds of toys do men prefer? According to a 2022 U.S. survey, 46 percent of men said they owned at least one anal toy, while 41 percent said they owned at least one vibrator. These were the two most popular types of sex toys among men that year.
New to buying sex toys? You’re not alone. If you feel intimidated by the idea of entering a sex shop and chatting with the cashier at checkout, consider shopping for sexual health products online.
You may be overwhelmed by the selection you’ll find out there, but remember, the best sex toy is a personal choice. It largely depends on what you hope to experience and how you plan to use the toy.
Here are some questions to ask yourself:
Do I plan to use this toy for solo or partnered play — or both?
What am I hoping to achieve? (e.g., longer-lasting sex, prostate stimulation, more pleasure for my partner, etc.)
Do I like the sensation of being penetrated?
What are my kinks?
Do I want something small and compact I can travel with?
Do I want something with special features, like vibration or warming?
Keep reading for other considerations and a rundown of the different sex toys for men.
From more intimacy with your partner to longer-lasting sex, here are a few of the proven benefits of using sex toys:
Sex toys can revive your sex life. If you’re in a sexual rut with your partner, adding a sex toy to the mix can jumpstart your engines. This is especially true if you’ve never used one together before — studies suggest novelty is key to satisfying sex in long-term relationships.
Male vibrator use may improve psychological erectile dysfunction (ED). Some research has shown that vibrator use may improve psychological ED by increasing blood flow and relaxing erectile tissues.
Some sex toys may prolong sex. If you want sex to last longer, using a penis ring (aka cock ring) may work in your favor. These sex toys apply pressure around the base of the penis to trap blood, which may help you maintain an erection longer.
The best sex toys for men depend on how you plan to use them and what you’re hoping to achieve. Whether the goal is enhanced pleasure for your partner, lasting longer in bed, or adding prostate stimulation to your sex life, we’ve got you covered.
Below, find the best vibrators, masturbation sleeves, anal toys, cock rings, and more.
There’s a reason bullet vibrators are bestsellers: They’re versatile. These bullet-shaped sex toys with rounded or pointed tips can be used alone as a personal stimulator or with a partner to add an extra layer of pleasure.
The Hims Roller Coaster bullet vibrator is a rechargeable, splashproof device with three vibration modes. Small but mighty, the toy is great for beginners and can be shared by partners — but don’t forget to clean it after each use. You also don’t have to worry about waking your roommates because this discreet vibrator has a quiet buzz.
Besides the pleasure it brings, there are plenty of other reasons to give a bullet vibrator a try. According to a 2016 study, vibratory stimulation improves sexual functioning for men struggling with delayed orgasm.
Here are some ways to use a bullet vibrator:
Hold the toy against the shaft of your penis or roll it around the tip during foreplay or solo play.
When getting a blow job, press the vibrator against your scrotum (balls) or perineum.
If your partner has a clitoris, stimulate it with the vibrator to bring her more pleasure.
During foreplay, ask your partner to run the vibrator over your erogenous zones, like your nipples, lower stomach, or inner thigh.
The best male masturbators are devices known as male strokers or masturbation sleeves. Meant to mimic the sensations of penetrative or oral sex, these sex toys are designed to stimulate the entire length of your penis.
Male strokers are basically stretchy tubes you wear on your penis while masturbating. Inside the tube, the stroker may be ribbed or have raised nubs to provide tactile sensations when you manually slide it up and down over your penis. Some strokers also have vibrational or warming features.
Other male masturbators are more lifelike and may even resemble a vagina, like the popular “pocket pussies” or Fleshlights®. These male masturbation toys usually have a suction effect to maximize pleasure. They can be useful if you want something more realistic but don’t want to order a life-sized sex doll.
Studies have found that, like male vibrators, masturbation sleeves may help improve symptoms of certain sexual dysfunctions. A 2017 case report found masturbation sleeves to be useful in treating delayed ejaculation. And a 2016 study showed them to be helpful in treating premature ejaculation (PE).
Some men wear penis rings (cock rings) to help prolong their erections for longer-lasting sex. These erection enhancers work by applying pressure to the base of the penis, which traps blood in the penile tissues longer.
While it’s a stretch to say these sex toys can treat premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction on their own, they might help you feel more confident if you want longer, harder erections. Some research shows that constriction rings can help improve ED when combined with vacuum erectile devices (penis pumps).
Hims Standing O penis rings are made with ultra-soft silicone and feature external grooves to provide extra stimulation for your partner. The rings come in two sizes to ensure a comfortable fit.
Keep in mind that constricting rings shouldn’t be used for long periods or worn too tightly. This can lead to injury and complications like priapism (a painful, prolonged erection lasting four or more hours).
You already know a penis ring may support better erections. A vibrating cock ring does the same thing while providing extra vibrating stimulation for you and your partner.
The Hims OMG Ring penis vibrator is a hands-free penis ring with five different vibration patterns and five intensities that mimic the natural rhythms of sex. If your partner has a clitoris, a penis ring can help increase their chances of having an orgasm by applying direct stimulation.
If you didn’t already know, the clitoris is a highly sensitive erogenous zone that plays a crucial role in the female orgasm. In one comprehensive study of women aged 18 to 94, roughly 37 percent said clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during sex.
Another 36 percent of participants reported that, while clitoral stimulation wasn’t necessary, their orgasms felt better if this erogenous zone was stimulated during sex.
Penis sleeves, aka penis extenders, are devices that may make penetrative sex easier for men with erectile dysfunction (though research is limited). Worn over the penis (kind of like a strap-on dildo), a penis sleeve is designed to enhance firmness as well as penis length and girth, which may make sex more pleasurable for both partners.
Some penis sleeves have extra features like nubs or vibration for more stimulation.
Though penis sleeves may be a popular choice for men with ED, it’s important to remember that these devices don’t enhance the flow of blood to the penis like FDA-approved ED medication. If you’re using a penis sleeve to help you get or maintain an erection, you might have more luck with prescription medication.
The P-spot is sometimes called the male G-spot because of its connection to enhanced sexual pleasure. Exactly what the P-spot is is a matter of debate, though it’s often thought to refer to the prostate (hence the “P”).
This walnut-sized gland, which sits under the bladder, can be massaged with fingers or a toy, like the Hims Thrill Ride prostate massager.
This insertable sex toy has seven vibrational settings managed by a remote control for solo or partnered sex. To stimulate the prostate, simply insert the toy anally (using water-based lube) and enjoy the ride. If you have a female partner, she can also use the toy for G-spot stimulation.
A prostate toy might be pleasurable for those who enjoy anal play. But you may want to warm up first with anal beads or a butt plug if you haven’t had anal sex before or if you’re not sure you’re ready for a prostate massager device.
There are many myths and misconceptions about sex toys that may be holding you back from giving one a try. It might be time to shift your perspective.
Some things to remember:
Sex toys aren’t just for women. Based on all the toys outlined above, we hope you see that sex toys are for everyone, including you!
Using a sex toy to pleasure your partner doesn’t mean you’re bad in bed. Sex toys aren’t meant to replace you. They can add a sense of novelty to a relationship and help bring your partner closer to orgasm.
Sex toys aren’t only for solo sex. Sex toys aren’t just for masturbation — though they can be! They can also spice up sex for you and your partner.
Anal penetration doesn’t mean you’re gay (not that there’s anything wrong with that). Anal play is still highly stigmatized for many heterosexual men. If something feels good to you, be willing to let go of misconceptions and explore new sides of your sexuality without shame.
Want to use sex toys with your partner? Communication is key. Studies show that talking about sex with a significant other is linked to increased orgasm frequency for women and more sex and relationship satisfaction in both men and women.
If you find it hard to talk about sex with your partner, consider seeing a sex therapist. They can offer tips and strategies to make these conversations easier.
If you’re thinking of using a sex toy to help with PE or ED, talk to a healthcare provider to get more support. They may suggest medication, therapy, or even lifestyle changes to improve sexual function.
For PE, your provider may prescribe antidepressants off-label for longer-lasting sex. There are also over-the-counter options like Hims Clockstopper benzocaine wipes.
For ED, Hims provides access to popular prescription medications like:
You can get a prescription online after a virtual consultation with a licensed medical provider, if appropriate.
Sex toys come into contact with bodily fluids, so it’s crucial to keep them clean, whether you plan on sharing them or not.
Here are some quick tips to help you keep your toys clean:
Buy toys made of non-porous materials like silicone or stainless steel.
Wash your sex toys before and after each use with warm, soapy water.
Use deep-cleaning methods to clean toys regularly (boiling water, dishwasher, etc.).
Let toys dry before putting them away.
Use condoms with sex toys for an extra layer of protection.
Finding and using the best male sex toys is just one way to enhance pleasure, improve intimacy, and help address sexual health concerns. But it’s not the only option.
Beyond exploring the best men’s sex toys, here are some other ways you can achieve a healthy sex life:
Address treatable issues like ED or PE with your healthcare provider.
Talk to a therapist if you have low self-esteem, shame around sex, or communication roadblocks with your partner.
Do kegel exercises to maintain a strong pelvic floor.
Practice good hygiene to keep your penis healthy and sex toys clean.
Be open to trying new sexual positions.
Explore your sexual fantasies.
Read our blogs to find more ways to have better sex and learn how to become sexually confident.
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